Speaking of, and not to pollute the karma or anything, don't you just love people who take their messy breakups into an online forum? (3rd post down on the page, then further down.)
Heidi sent me that a few years ago and I had it on the inside of my kitchen cupboard until I painted all the cupboard doors lime green. Do I like this because it's a list? Because I feel like I'm doing pretty well on most of the items? Or because it has a core of truth?